So I've been meaning to create this thread and discuss this for some time.
Backstory:
I've been in shape my entire life. Workout about 4 times a week. Never been overweight at all. I've been told I'm good looking or hot etc by men and women bla bla bla. Anyway I've always received attention for my looks but recently a situation happened that pretty much bothered me full stop.
I was invited about a week ago to eat some sushi with my best friend that I've known for years. He wanted me to meet him and his new girlfriend. No problem. It was Saturday night downtown so it was busy and all that. I put on some good clothes and agreed. We meet up and eat and have a good time and decide to do some bar hopping.
In transit while walking to a bar a random woman who looked to be in her early to mid twenties approached me from behind while I was looking at my phone. Keep in mind this is about 10 at night. She puts her hand around my neck and says 'How are you doing tonight?'
Me startled 'fine, and you'
Her 'fine. Hey you are really hot and you have a nice ass. I mean it just sticks out there..'
Me...feeling a little awkward and annoyed 'thanks but I'm just walking with my friends here trying to enjoy the night.'
Her looking forward and noticing my friend and his girlfriend starring at us 'oh I'm sorry I didn't know you were with others!'
She then looks at me and grabs my ass and walks away.
A second later another different woman slightly older walks past and says 'You do have a great butt just so you know'.
My 2 friends at this point come up to me and ask if I knew either of those women. I didn't.
My question to you all is. As a man have you ever been felt up inappropriately by random women? Does it bother you? Also we always hear about it happening to women, but why is that? I mean I'm pretty sure I was sexually harrassed that night.
Backstory:
I've been in shape my entire life. Workout about 4 times a week. Never been overweight at all. I've been told I'm good looking or hot etc by men and women bla bla bla. Anyway I've always received attention for my looks but recently a situation happened that pretty much bothered me full stop.
I was invited about a week ago to eat some sushi with my best friend that I've known for years. He wanted me to meet him and his new girlfriend. No problem. It was Saturday night downtown so it was busy and all that. I put on some good clothes and agreed. We meet up and eat and have a good time and decide to do some bar hopping.
In transit while walking to a bar a random woman who looked to be in her early to mid twenties approached me from behind while I was looking at my phone. Keep in mind this is about 10 at night. She puts her hand around my neck and says 'How are you doing tonight?'
Me startled 'fine, and you'
Her 'fine. Hey you are really hot and you have a nice ass. I mean it just sticks out there..'
Me...feeling a little awkward and annoyed 'thanks but I'm just walking with my friends here trying to enjoy the night.'
Her looking forward and noticing my friend and his girlfriend starring at us 'oh I'm sorry I didn't know you were with others!'
She then looks at me and grabs my ass and walks away.
A second later another different woman slightly older walks past and says 'You do have a great butt just so you know'.
My 2 friends at this point come up to me and ask if I knew either of those women. I didn't.
My question to you all is. As a man have you ever been felt up inappropriately by random women? Does it bother you? Also we always hear about it happening to women, but why is that? I mean I'm pretty sure I was sexually harrassed that night.
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