Well, my dear-union-brothers, I hate to admit it but it appears that my wife is starting to become a.... hoarder? You see, she is hardly clean her bedroom and the clothes are all over places. She even buy things that I, personal, don't think she needs it. Sometimes she is even having a hard time let go some of things that has not been used for quite a while (EVEN with foods!). Sometime she even leave some of drinks (like soda or something) in the bedroom, which I hate the most mainly because of bugs.
When I confront her about the issue, she gets upset or usually say things like "Well, I'm tired and I will do this later" when she doesn't do that for a long period of time. I remember one time, when she was watching one of the show called "Hoarder" or something like that, she started to freak out and say "I have to clean! I have to clean this! I hope it doesn't happen to me!" That's when I was puzzled about that and that was the first sign I've noticed about her behavior. Well, about a year later or so, it started to show that she is starting to become like the people I, partly, saw on television and it started to concern me even more.
I love my wife and I would hate for her to become a hoarder or something. I HOPE she's not like one of those crazy people that got clothes, foods, etc. all over the places at home that never pick up for more than a year or so. I'm sorry but I thought that was a nasty-looking and makes me feel uncomfortable when I saw that. That actually made my OCD getting worse and I always make sure we clean every single thing at home to make it looks nicer and smell fresh.
It looks like I will have to force her to actually clean and start pick up her clothes everyday. Generally, I am a gentle man and I don't tell people what to do but with her being like that, it looks like I have no choice. Do you know anyone that are like that? Share your thought/experience/advice!
When I confront her about the issue, she gets upset or usually say things like "Well, I'm tired and I will do this later" when she doesn't do that for a long period of time. I remember one time, when she was watching one of the show called "Hoarder" or something like that, she started to freak out and say "I have to clean! I have to clean this! I hope it doesn't happen to me!" That's when I was puzzled about that and that was the first sign I've noticed about her behavior. Well, about a year later or so, it started to show that she is starting to become like the people I, partly, saw on television and it started to concern me even more.
I love my wife and I would hate for her to become a hoarder or something. I HOPE she's not like one of those crazy people that got clothes, foods, etc. all over the places at home that never pick up for more than a year or so. I'm sorry but I thought that was a nasty-looking and makes me feel uncomfortable when I saw that. That actually made my OCD getting worse and I always make sure we clean every single thing at home to make it looks nicer and smell fresh.
It looks like I will have to force her to actually clean and start pick up her clothes everyday. Generally, I am a gentle man and I don't tell people what to do but with her being like that, it looks like I have no choice. Do you know anyone that are like that? Share your thought/experience/advice!