Anybody suffer from OCD or neurotic about order and correctness?

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If so, I'd stay out of this thread!

I do somewhat. I like balance and very rarely like any sort of randomness. I'm a planner and very rarely do I do things on a spur of the moment. It may look like I do but there's been a lot of thought put into it.

Anyway, some of these would drive me nuts in a funny way but I would still have to correct them.

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The Kit Kat one is really funny, and I actually used to do that sometimes with the Bubble Gum Tape.

I don't really have OCD tendencies at all.
 
Sometimes I do, yeah. Tendencies, not the full blown disorder. Especially when I'm new to something, I can get wound up over details and get over-controlling. I was that way in the first week or two of the moderator gig, for instance. I'm that way in the first part of a lot of things, until I start to feel more comfortable, get a lay of the land. Until then, my default coping style is to get very left-brained, detail/control oriented. I usually snap out of it after recognizing it in myself.
 
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I always use my shirt to cover my hand while open the public doors (bathroom, stores, etc.)
 
The JAG picture would anger me. Just have a damn uniform styling.

Yeah, I've got a few book series' which have different covers. Like why the f*ck would you alter the size of the title for just one book?

I bought the Song of Ice and Fire book series as I read them. One book turned up and was a bigger book than the others! Same edition, different f*cking size. I'm not OCD really, but that led to me buying the whole series in hardback so I had a nice uniform collection. It sits on my bookshelf looking very sophisticated. To be honest, I'm probably most OCDish with my books on the shelf. Got to be uniform, in height order etc.
 
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Obsessive compulsive has to do with stuff being orderly an balanced as well as the compulsion to repeat tasks/motions, thoughts, actions, fears, etc.

;)

That's not even what obsessive compulsive means, let alone what OCD refers too. It has nothing specifically to do with things being orderly. Some people with OCD obsessive over things being orderly, others obsess over saying words over and over again, turning on and off light switches, picking at scabs, etc.

OCD is sort of a slang term at this point, which is fine, I was just making a joke.. but I have seen people who suffer from OCD get really upset at how people use it to refer to how they like things to be organized.

I kind of get why they are upset; not just because it makes light of a very real disorder but because the people who will say "I'm so OCD" are often looking for some sort of attention or trying to act like they are special somehow.. when.. the reality is.. most people are annoyed by disorganization.
 
I have a mild case of OCD, which people who think they're totally normal would probably think of as full blown OCD. I don't do any of that ritual crap but certain things bother me.

Like fingerprints and scratches on my brand new consoles. Why the hell do they keep giving us this glossy plastic sh!t? It looks good in photos and that's about it. Touch it, and it looks like crap. I'd rather have a full matte finish.
 
That's not even what obsessive compulsive means, let alone what OCD refers too. It has nothing specifically to do with things being orderly. Some people with OCD obsessive over things being orderly, others obsess over saying words over and over again, turning on and off light switches, picking at scabs, etc.

OCD is sort of a slang term at this point, which is fine, I was just making a joke.. but I have seen people who suffer from OCD get really upset at how people use it to refer to how they like things to be organized.

I kind of get why they are upset; not just because it makes light of a very real disorder but because the people who will say "I'm so OCD" are often looking for some sort of attention or trying to act like they are special somehow.. when.. the reality is.. most people are annoyed by disorganization.
That's exactly how I'm using it here. The inability to not obsess over disorder. I think most fall into the "annoyed" category as you said. I don't think anybody is saying they're outright OCD here or are belittling true OCD. Not saying you're claiming that. And it has become slang to bring light to annoyances that give us slight discomfort.
 
Yeah I got what you meant. Essentially the slang version of the word.. I was trying to make a joke but also pointing out that it does annoy some OCD people that it's used that way. It rarely has to do with being orderly, and is a lot more extreme in general than the little things that annoy us.

Back on topic: I don't really have anxiety about things being in order. If I cut a pie, I try to do it perfect.. if I hang a picture I am as precise as possible, etc. but nothing like that really "drives me crazy" as they say if something isn't in order.

I'm too impatient to get upset about disorder.
 
That's exactly how I'm using it here. The inability to not obsess over disorder. I think most fall into the "annoyed" category as you said. I don't think anybody is saying they're outright OCD here or are belittling true OCD. Not saying you're claiming that. And it has become slang to bring light to annoyances that give us slight discomfort.

Yup, that's how i am as i said above. I'll be annoyed and even to the point of wanting to flip out on something but then i'll just tell myself to stfu and go to sleep. :laugh:

I feel sorry for anyone with the true disorder of OCD. At some point you have to get over it but these people just can't seem to do it. How many times are you going to try and open a door that you just locked before you realize it's locked? I don't get it.
 
I'm too impatient to get upset about disorder.
I'm sure I'm worse. When I'm cutting paper or something I rarely can make it through the whole thing without resulting to the "slide technique". I'm far too lazy/impatient to go cut by cut until I'm all the way through. Ain't nobody got time for that.
 
On my desktop in work I am neurotic about what windows are in what order on my taskbar. It's a bit odd because its about the only thing I think off where I act in that way.
 
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Obsessive compulsive has to do with stuff being orderly an balanced as well as the compulsion to repeat tasks/motions, thoughts, actions, fears, etc.

;)

DSM IV - TR
(cautionary statement)

A. Either obsessions or compulsions:

Obsessions as defined by (1), (2), (3), and (4):

(1) recurrent and persistent thoughts, impulses, or images that are experienced, at some time during the disturbance, as intrusive and inappropriate and that cause marked anxiety or distress
(2) the thoughts, impulses, or images are not simply excessive worries about real-life problems
(3) the person attempts to ignore or suppress such thoughts, impulses, or images, or to neutralize them with some other thought or action
(4) the person recognizes that the obsessional thoughts, impulses, or images are a product of his or her own mind (not imposed from without as in thought insertion)

Compulsions as defined by (1) and (2):

(1) repetitive behaviors (e.g., hand washing, ordering, checking) or mental acts (e.g., praying, counting, repeating words silently) that the person feels driven to perform in response to an obsession, or according to rules that must be applied rigidly
(2) the behaviors or mental acts are aimed at preventing or reducing distress or preventing some dreaded event or situation; however, these behaviors or mental acts either are not connected in a realistic way with what they are designed to neutralize or prevent or are clearly excessive

B. At some point during the course of the disorder, the person has recognized that the obsessions or compulsions are excessive or unreasonable. Note: This does not apply to children.

C. The obsessions or compulsions cause marked distress, are time consuming (take more than 1 hour a day), or significantly interfere with the person's normal routine, occupational (or academic) functioning, or usual social activities or relationships.

D. If another Axis I disorder is present, the content of the obsessions or compulsions is not restricted to it (e.g., preoccupation with food in the presence of an Eating Disorders; hair pulling in the presence of Trichotillomania; concern with appearance in the presence of Body Dysmorphic Disorder; preoccupation with drugs in the presence of a Substance Use Disorder; preoccupation with having a serious illness in the presence of Hypochondriasis; preoccupation with sexual urges or fantasies in the presence of a Paraphilia; or guilty ruminations in the presence of Major Depressive Disorder).

E. The disturbance is not due to the direct physiological effects of a substance(e.g., a drug of abuse, a medication) or a general medical condition.

Specify if:
With Poor Insight: if, for most of the time during the current episode the person does not recognize that the obsessions and compulsions are excessive or unreasonable

Reprinted with permission from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition, Text Revision. Copyright 2000 American Psychiatric Association

DSM IV
(cautionary statement)

A. Either obsessions or compulsions:

Obsessions as defined by (1), (2), (3), and (4):

(1) recurrent and persistent thoughts, impulses, or images that are experienced, at some time during the disturbance, as intrusive and inappropriate and that cause marked anxiety or distress
(2) the thoughts, impulses, or images are not simply excessive worries about real-life problems
(3) the person attempts to ignore or suppress such thoughts, impulses, or images, or to neutralize them with some other thought or action
(4) the person recognizes that the obsessional thoughts, impulses, or images are a product of his or her own mind (not imposed from without as in thought insertion)

Compulsions as defined by (1) and (2):

(1) repetitive behaviors (e.g., hand washing, ordering, checking) or mental acts (e.g., praying, counting, repeating words silently) that the person feels driven to perform in response to an obsession, or according to rules that must be applied rigidly
(2) the behaviors or mental acts are aimed at preventing or reducing distress or preventing some dreaded event or situation; however, these behaviors or mental acts either are not connected in a realistic way with what they are designed to neutralize or prevent or are clearly excessive

B. At some point during the course of the disorder, the person has recognized that the obsessions or compulsions are excessive or unreasonable. Note: This does not apply to children.

C. The obsessions or compulsions cause marked distress, are time consuming (take more than 1 hour a day), or significantly interfere with the person's normal routine, occupational (or academic) functioning, or usual social activities or relationships.

D. If another Axis I disorder is present, the content of the obsessions or compulsions is not restricted to it (e.g., preoccupation with food in the presence of an Eating Disorders; hair pulling in the presence of Trichotillomania; concern with appearance in the presence of Body Dysmorphic Disorder; preoccupation with drugs in the presence of a Substance Use Disorder; preoccupation with having a serious illness in the presence of Hypochondriasis; preoccupation with sexual urges or fantasies in the presence of a Paraphilia; or guilty ruminations in the presence of Major Depressive Disorder).

E. The disturbance is not due to the direct physiological effects of a substance(e.g., a drug of abuse, a medication) or a general medical condition.

Specify if:
With Poor Insight: if, for most of the time during the current episode the person does not recognize that the obsessions and compulsions are excessive or unreasonable
 
Fwiw, there are two disorders, OCD and OCPD, with very similar labels, and although "OCD" has become shorthand, it's actually OCPD (Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder) that most people are referencing. I'll give you the short version:

OCD - obsessions and compulsions (see above). Examples: washing your hands 20 times even though they are clean, checking your door or window locks for hours, even though you "know" they are locked; counting to yourself over and over; cleaning obsessively out of fear of contamination; hoarding (like on the TV show).

OCPD - perfectionism, excessively detail oriented, excessive need for order and organization, "anal" personality, overly structured and rule-oriented, driven to always be "productive," hard time relaxing and going with the flow, etc.

When people say "I'm OCD," they usually mean the latter, not the former. It's confusing, because we've got two different disorders with "obsessive compulsive" in the title.
 
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Now that I think about it, I kind of do have an OCD action that I do. Every night right before I go to bed, I HAVE to look at my stove and make sure every knob is turned to off, then as I walk out of my kitchen towards my bedroom I have to look at my door and make sure the latch lock thing is up. If I leave my room any time after doing these checks I MUST do them again. Every night, even if I didn't cook that day at all.