My friend is terrible with women...LMAO..

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I don't know what his problem is. He is 27, single, not fat, in good shape, resonably attractive, yet still has problems dating.
For instance. He has gone through 4 girls in 4 months. Didn't actually date them. Got to the point where he made out with 2 of the hopefuls, and then for some reason or another 1 of them said she just wanted to be friends & the other just flat out went to another guy and started dating him.
Its crazy. I just lol'd.

Anyway.....do you have trouble with the opposite sex?
 
Pretty much. I know I'm not ugly or fat, but I tend to get extremely awkward to be around on dates and the like. My anxiety issues used to be a huge factor holding me back. I went on my first date when I was 18, I dated this girl that was way out of my league. Spent 20 mins in the bathroom trying gain my composure as I used to have frequent anxiety/panic attacks (It was my first date, give me a break). I'm 25 now and they are rare though. Just a phase I went through I guess.

More recently, one girl that dumped me said I was "too passive", and didn't really express my emotions (your welcome?). But I kind of attribute that to my general awkwardness. I just don't feel like myself on dates.

Anyways, I'm likely to be single forever if this keeps up.
 
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It comes down to two things: he either creeply awkward around women or he has some kind of bad BO/breath that body washes/mints or gum cannot hide.
 
I hope everything works out for yo-.. I mean your friend.
 
Well I have that too. Between men I am a stable go-to guy, but I'm not sure if girls even care about me. I kinda have no idea what to do with girls. Very few times I had a fun talk with girls, most girls make me angry just by overhearing them, and the ones I really like are always way out of my league, which made me very anxious at first and later near-suicidal for shame (not of being refused but of others knowing it) for the last few years. Now I'm out of it and am having a great fun with solitary activities and lots of writing, doubt I will ever go back to trying a relationship with girls.
 
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being good with dating means you gotta have charisma and able to keep the girl hooked... looks, place in society and money is all secondary.
 
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Ascalaphus said:
I don't know what his problem is. He is 27, single, not fat, in good shape, resonably attractive, yet still has problems dating.
For instance. He has gone through 4 girls in 4 months. Didn't actually date them. Got to the point where he made out with 2 of the hopefuls, and then for some reason or another 1 of them said she just wanted to be friends & the other just flat out went to another guy and started dating him.
Its crazy. I just lol'd.

Anyway.....do you have trouble with the opposite sex?
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Yeah. I've had a lot in the past, mate. It ain't fun. I'm glad I am wiser now.

Looking back at everything I don't feel so bad about all my failures and harsh landings. The only ones I regret is that I tried to score my female friends. It's one of the few areas in my life where I have felt insincere. Being a nice guy to get in their pants. I was a fedora-wearing dork believing that like in the Disney movies, the princess will totally do you if you are just nice enough. I was such a chump.

Realizing how little importance it all had. Putting the women on the pedestal. All that crap. It just kept me from being myself which was just another human being.
 
I'm not gonna sit here and pretend to be BunzHoles or anything, but I generally find female company nice and not really awkward. Probably helps that people tend to think I have a good sense of humour (women love that sh*t..whatever...yada yada).

I think confidence helps as well..well I hope it does...omg what if it doesn't help? What the f*ck am I gonna do?
 
I'm no expert either, but I think guys run into trouble with women when they 1) start to think of them as some type of alien creatures or 2) try to too hard to impress them or get their approval.
 
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I'm no expert either, but I think guys run into trouble with women when they 1) start to think of them as some type of alien creatures or 2) try to too hard to impress them or get their approval.
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Yeah I would not argue with this, and once I got used to these I don't think I had problem at simply getting to be acquaintance. Any closer relationship is a different matter though, for it's just not as comfy as male ones, and the relationship develops really slow. Got used to it myself though.
 
Maybe he has an incredibly small penis?

Oh wait that's my problem.

If he's socially awkward around women you should be able to observe it quickly when the two of you are around women.
 
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I love how everyone is like "I'm not fat". I've seen some big hefty boys with some cute girls. Hell I'm a pretty big black guy and I have a cute gf that I actually met on an MMO like 3 years ago. It actually took us over 2 years before we even met IRL. I flew from cali to texas to meet her and it went great from the first time we saw each other.

I actually got pretty lucky tbh lol. I'm a very shy person and I was nervous as all hell but she wasn't and we spent so much time together online, on skype 24/7 etc etc she was already in love with me and meeting irl didn't change a thing. I actually moved to texas to be with her and we've been living together since August. Everything going great. I thank god everyday for bringing her to me. I thought I would be alone forever as I'm way to shy and not the type to go out to clubs and sh*t.
 
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I love how everyone is like "I'm not fat". I've seen some big hefty boys with some cute girls. Hell I'm a pretty big black guy and I have a cute gf that I actually met on an MMO like 3 years ago. It actually took us over 2 years before we even met IRL. I flew from cali to texas to meet her and it went great from the first time we saw each other.

I actually got pretty lucky tbh lol. I'm a very shy person and I was nervous as all hell but she wasn't and we spent so much time together online, on skype 24/7 etc etc she was already in love with me and meeting irl didn't change a thing. I actually moved to texas to be with her and we've been living together since August. Everything going great. I thank god everyday for bringing her to me. I thought I would be alone forever as I'm way to shy and not the type to go out to clubs and sh*t.
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That's a really cool story!
 
Well if he managed to get within striking distance of 4 girls in 4 months, he's obviously able to attract them.
Something is going wrong in the mid-later stages.

If it's pre-sex (or discussion of sex) maybe he's just not making the move when the window of opportunity is open, and the girls think he's not really interested. It's probably this. I've made this mistake a bunch of times and I've seen other people do it too. Pretty common.

Otherwise he might be asking the girls to do weird s***. Most girls aren't that averse to weird s***, but perhaps bringing it up before they've even hit 2nd base scares them off.
 
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