I went through that with my sister passing. I am the executor of the estate. I had to do everything from cancel cable to selling her house and everything in between, funeral, bills, donations, house repairs, tax returns, etc,. etc., etc. It was emotionally and physically draining. I never got a chance to properly mourn because the very next day I had to start with everything. It’s still not complete as I’m still waiting for probate to finally release what’s left in the estate so I can recoup the $50k I had to use of my savings to do all the above. It’s not easy, as you can relate.