What does the Bible *really* say about same-sex relationships?


Then you agree it's objectively morally neutral to love and nurture a child vs. torturing it and raping it for fun?

Remember, the atheist cannot make claims to objective morality. Morality is nothing more than a social, biological convention we primates have evolved to recognize. No person's moral opinions or behaviors are better or worse than anyone else's.

This is what you have to subscribe to as an atheist, Qbert.
 
Then you agree it's objectively morally neutral to love and nurture a child vs. torturing it and raping it for fun?

Remember, the atheist cannot make claims to objective morality. Morality is nothing more than a social, biological convention we primates have evolved to recognize. No person's moral opinions or behaviors are better or worse than anyone else's.

This is what you have to subscribe to as an atheist, Qbert.

Morality is subjective. Hence why what we consider morals is largely influenced by many factors, not limited to geographic location, upbringing, set time in history, etc.


I never said I subscribed to objective morality, no so, I need not consider a god to influence what I perceive to be morally right or wrong.
 
Morality is subjective. Hence why what we consider morals is largely influenced by many factors, not limited to geographic location, upbringing, set time in history, etc.


I never said I subscribed to objective morality, no so, I need not consider a god to influence what I perceive to be morally right or wrong.

I think it can begin as subjective but grow through discussion and informed opinion and leading to a consensus. After trying something for a while we decide if it works or if it sucks. Is a society living a certain way leading to a better quality of life? Seems like a good deal.

I don't think Flynn could drop one of us off in North Korea and say we need a special objective reason for saying this is a s***ty situation to be in. Any of us would instantly have a subjective idea that country is a horrible place to be. A group of us there would form a consensus quickly that agree N. Korea sucks. It begins as subjective, but is also an informed opinion from previously living in a more free society.
 
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Morality is subjective.

This is your opinion, but I disagree. I think it's objectively wrong to torture and rape a baby child, and I think Mother Theresa lived an objectively better life than Adolf Hitler.

For your statement to be true, you'd have to agree that torturing a child for fun is objectively morally equivalent to loving that child. I think that's as false as 2+2=5.

Hence why what we consider morals is largely influenced by many factors, not limited to geographic location, upbringing, set time in history, etc.

Math equations are also influenced by variables, but that doesn't change the fact that there are objectively right answers to math equations. Objective morality works similarly.


I never said I subscribed to objective morality

Nor did I claim you did. :)

I need not consider a god to influence what I perceive to be morally right or wrong.

No, but on your world view, (objectively) life is meaningless, torturing children for fun is a morally neutral act to loving that child, and mother Theresa's life was objectively morally equivalent to Adolf Hitler's life.

If you believe that, you've got far more faith than me, my friend... not to mention, you *do* hold to moral truths. Everyone does. There *are* things you believe are morally right, and morally wrong... why would you deny those intuitions and experiences? Just so your atheism makes sense?

I think deep down, you too know that some things truly are bad, and some things truly are good... you're just not comfortable admitting it, because it has theological ramifications you don't agree with.
 
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Jesus also never said anything about having sex with your biological mother.

This caricature of an argument is actually specifically dealt with in the video that I started the thread with. Do you recall that?

Jesus didn't cover every topic, every possible combination of topics, and every scenario... what He DID do was tell us everything He does is from the Father, and the greatest of all commandments is to love God with all our hearts, minds, and souls... and to love each other as ourselves. Loving God means respecting his Word, and His Word is clear... homosexual sex among humans is an abomination.
 
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This is your opinion, but I disagree. I think it's objectively wrong to torture and rape a baby child, and I think Mother Theresa lived an objectively better life than Adolf Hitler.

For your statement to be true, you'd have to agree that torturing a child for fun is objectively morally equivalent to loving that child. I think that's as false as 2+2=5.

Math equations are also influenced by variables, but that doesn't change the fact that there are objectively right answers to math equations. Objective morality works similarly.

No, but on your world view, (objectively) life is meaningless, torturing children for fun is a morally neutral act to loving that child, and mother Theresa's life was objectively morally equivalent to Adolf Hitler's life.

Crazy idea, what if arguing Objective and Subjective Moralities against each other is a false paradigm? Can't human beings have an opinion informed by both Objectivity and Subjectivity?

Also, I think Flynn has shown a dislike for Strawmen, but at the same time eagerly describes other people's beliefs for them when arguing. I see no basis for describing Qbert's view of life being meaningless. I think this is overreaching. Or informing Qbert that he is indifferent to child suffering.
 
Crazy idea, what if arguing Objective and Subjective Moralities against each other is a false paradigm? Can't human beings have an opinion informed by both Objectivity and Subjectivity?

I'd say most opinions are probably informed by both objective and subjective materials, but we're not talking about "opinions".

The question is, does objective morality exist? That is to say, if the Nazi's won WWII, and they killed or brainwashed anyone who disagreed with them, would it be morally wrong to exterminate Jews? If objective morality exists, that answer would be "no", even if no one in the world agreed with it. If you and Qbert are right and objective morality doesn't exist, then a world where the Nazi's won and killed or brainwashed everyone would be a world where killing jews was not just "not bad", it would actually be "good". Slaughtering an entire segment of humanity would be considered the "RIGHT", "GOOD", "PROPER" thing to do. You'd live in a world where you "OUGHT" to slaughter Jews.

Sound insane? Well, that's what atheism means. That's what subjective morality means. It's logically inescapable.

So this isn't really a discussion about epistemology of opinions.

Also, I think Flynn has shown a dislike for Strawmen, but at the same time eagerly describes other people's beliefs for them when arguing. I see no basis for describing Qbert's view of life being meaningless.

It's reason. It's logic.

1. If there is no God, then objective morality doesn't exist.
2. If there's no God, then there's no objective meaning to life.
3. If there's no God, then all of humanity is doomed to the eventual heat death of the universe. All life (in fact) will eventually die out in the heat death of the universe.

That logically, and inescapably means that on the atheistic view, there's no objective meaning to life. You may think of your little hobbies, and your temporal relationships as something of personal value to you (on a merely subjective level), but objectively, there's no meaning. All of life, all of the universe, and everything in it is pointless.

It also logically, and inescapably means that (on atheism) there's no "oughts", no moral "rights", no moral "wrongs", only social differences between evolved primates which are of no more objective value than specs of dust.

Many atheists don't think through the logical conclusions of their own world view, but top atheistic supports of our day and of previous generations understood this. Friedrich Nietzsche understood this in his pioneering work.

Without God, nihilism is almost certainly true and inescapable.

I think this is overreaching. Or informing Qbert that he is indifferent to child suffering.

I never said Qbert was indifferent to child suffering. I said that without objective morality, Qbert's view of child suffering has no more objective value or legitimacy than a crazed pedophile who gets off on molesting and torturing children. Qbert may find child suffering "unappealing", but he cannot claim it's "wrong". He self-proclaims that there is no objective morality... that means that taste in morality is no different than taste in foods; some people like chocolate ice cream, some like vanilla... but it's not "better" to prefer vanilla over chocolate. It's just "different".

So Qbert may prefer children not to suffer, but if someone was torturing a child, that person may be breaking the law and acting in a taboo way socially, but he's doing nothing objectively "Wrong", and Qbert could never tell him otherwise.

The theist is just in a better position. The theist can say, "yeah - it's wrong to do that".

So let me ask you... do you think anything is truly "wrong", or truly "right" (morally speaking)? Do you think sticking red-hot needles into a babies eyes for fun is "wrong"?

If you do, then you should consider theism... because without a God, as Qbert rightfully places his faith, there is no objective morality.
 
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This is your opinion, but I disagree. Just so your atheism makes sense?

You got it. It's my opinion, just like you have your opinion. You're wasting breath trying to convince me that my opinion is wrong, the same way as I'm not attempting to convince you that I believe your opinion is wrong.

I think deep down, you too know that some things truly are bad, and some things truly are good... you're just not comfortable admitting it, because it has theological ramifications you don't agree with.
Not at all. I believe that some things are bad, and some things are good, and I think what I believe has zero to do with theology.


Again, stop trying to cram your opinion down my throat. You believe what you believe, and I respect that. Get off your high horse and stop trying to tell others they're wrong every chance you get.


That's my problem with some religious folks. You're not content with just believing it on a personal level....instead, some of you want to put things to vote that affect others as well.
 
And I believe mother teresa lived a morally better life than hitler as well....I don't need god to tell me that. I don't need a god to tell me that causing pain and discomfort to others is wrong. Pain is real. It hurts. I don't want it happening to me, therefore, I know it's not good.
 
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I think if we play the Alternate Universe game, I'd be on the Confederate VGF right now arguing against a party member named CLU. This party member would be lecturing me on why Objective morality shows that it is acceptable to kill Sub-Human Jews, Gypsies, and especially the Abominable Homosexuals. You might have some things in common with NAZI CLU.

All it takes to redefine this special Objective Morality is for someone like Hitler to create a State Church.

Whether you think there is such as thing as Objective Morality, I'm not sure how functionally different is it because some Demagogue will always be around to tell us what it is. Or basically, they'll emphatically tell the masses that their own morality happens to coincide with Objective Morality. This probably happens everyday in North Korea.

Ask Kim Jong Un if there is an Objective Morality. He'd probably be happy to tell there is and it is "Obey Me Without Question".

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Otherwise, I'll grant that is fair to say life might not have a special purpose. I think it's a mistake to despair over some perceived 'insignificance' though. In fact, what if we're not made for a special purpose? That means we are free to find our own way. Saying you were made for a purpose could be taken to mean you are trapped in an inescapable fate
 
So Qbert may prefer children not to suffer, but if someone was torturing a child, that person may be breaking the law and acting in a taboo way socially, but he's doing nothing objectively "Wrong", and Qbert could never tell him otherwise.

Which is precisely what has been happening all throughout the history of man.
During the crusades, when the christians were bashing muslim babies against trees, and they felt they were morally right...that they were doing the work that god wanted of them. What about today, in India, honor killings, where those that comment the atrocities, feel in their hearts, that they are morally right.

Morality is subjective. Period. This nonsense that god gives us morals is just that, nonsense. If that was the case, then everyone committing atrocities would feel guilt....and they don't.





Just replace torturing a child with bashing babies against trees, honor killings, etc.
 
You got it. It's my opinion, just like you have your opinion. You're wasting breath trying to convince me that my opinion is wrong, the same way as I'm not attempting to convince you that I believe your opinion is wrong.

Oh, I'm not trying to change your opinion. You've made it quite clear that you're locked into your views.

What I am doing, however, is making it clear for anyone who reads this thread what the reality of your opinion/world view is. Many people still try to affirm "right" and "wrong" as atheists, and it's really too bad, because many of them don't realize the implications of their world view... so yeah, my responding to you to clarify this position isn't to change your mind, it's to make the world view clear for other readers, and to show just how extreme atheists have to go on their view to avoid God.

Not at all. I believe that some things are bad, and some things are good, and I think what I believe has zero to do with theology.

Why do you believe some things are good or bad? What's your justification and reasoning for those beliefs?

Again, stop trying to cram your opinion down my throat. You believe what you believe, and I respect that. Get off your high horse and stop trying to tell others they're wrong every chance you get.

I'm not. This is my thread, that I created. It wasn't meant to be an atheistic conversation, you're cramming YOUR stance down MY throat by coming into this thread, and derailing it. That said, I have no problem engaging atheists, and in fact - I enjoy it - but let's not be naïve here - you're the one pressing your opinion in this thread, not me.

I'm not on any high horse, I'm simply detailing our world views for anyone to read.

Also note, I only mention someone's wrong when they've made a factual error. I'm not at all "trying to tell others they're wrong every chance I get", that's simply false.

...and yes, I see the irony in that last sentence. :cool:

That's my problem with some religious folks. You're not content with just believing it on a personal level....

You came with your agenda and your world view in this thread, and you're the one who's been derailing it. I've engaged you because I do respect others with views who are different from mine, but now you're making claims which are simply irrational.

If anyone seems discontent "just believing his view" on a personal level, it's clearly you. This thread was written for Christians who struggle with the morality the Bible teaches on homosexual behavior among people. It was never meant to be a debate platform for atheists, yet that's what you and some of the others have done in this thread.

If you don't want to hear my views, don't come into my thread.

I'm fine with you being here, provided you keep it to the topic, or at least don't attack me simply because you have a problem with my engagement style... but if you're going to continue to derail the thread, and then irrationally accuse me of shoving *anything* down your throat, then I'm happy to report you to the mods, and get you banned from the thread.

...instead, some of you want to put things to vote that affect others as well.

I'm not sure I even understand what you're trying to claim here.
 
And you're locked into your views, as dictated by the good book.

Leave it at that.
 
Which is precisely what has been happening all throughout the history of man.
During the crusades, when the christians were bashing muslim babies against trees, and they felt they were morally right...that they were doing the work that god wanted of them. What about today, in India, honor killings, where those that comment the atrocities, feel in their hearts, that they are morally right.

See Qbert, you can't say that any of those cultures or groups are "wrong" to have done what they did. I, however, can. Your condemnation as an atheist is comical, because it's like attacking someone for liking blue instead of green. It's a meaningless attack (on your world view).

I can say quite clearly that anyone bashing a baby against a tree due solely to a religious stance is acting against the morality the Bible teaches. They were wrong to do that, and I can say as much. You can't. Honor killings in India - those are wrong - and I can say so, because I'm a theist who knows the Christian God. You, on the other hand, cannot judge them. Their culture is just different from yours.

Morality is subjective.

In your opinion.

Notice, there you go again, cramming your world view down the throats of anyone reading this thread... ironically, the exact thing you accused me of.

This nonsense that god gives us morals is just that, nonsense.

Notice, there you go again, cramming your world view down the throats of anyone reading this thread... ironically, the exact thing you accused me of.

If that was the case, then everyone committing atrocities would feel guilt....and they don't.

Not everyone has clear sight either, does that make those of us who do see clearly wrong, simply because someone with damaged sight doesn't see clearly?

Just replace torturing a child with bashing babies against trees, honor killings, etc.

I can say those things are wrong. You cannot. You affirm subjective morality, therefore your condemnation as an atheist is comical, because it's like attacking someone for liking blue instead of green. It's a meaningless attack (on your world view).
 
Oddly enough, I thought Qbert's last sentence was very on topic. I think he was referring to the Legal Status of Homosexual marriage which it seems like you want to prevent. Or if you allowed it, it most only be refered to as a generic Union.

I suppose the most amazing thing we're sitting around discussing a social issue like this when the economy is a disaster and we are almost constantly at war. Ohnoes, we can't have any same sex relations goin on while we're killing people with drone strikes.
 
I'm not sure I even understand what you're trying to claim here.

Simple. Going back to gay rights. You want to give people the option to vote on things that will affect others.
Why can't you just believe what you believe, and allow others to believe what they believe? In other words, if you don't want to believe in gay marriage, don't acknowledge it. Simple. No one is stomping on your rights. But instead, the religious right want to "impose" what they believe on others, even if others don't believe the same.
 
And you're locked into your views, as dictated by the good book.

That's false.

I'm not locked into many of my views. I'm open to where the evidence leads. I'm open to discussion. I currently have no defeater that suggests my personal experiences with God are delusory, and the best scientific, philosophical, and historical data suggests clearly to me that Christianity is the best supported, most logical world-view... but I'm open to reasonable discussion.

Leave it at that.

Nope. To leave it at that would be to deny the truth, and I'm not going to do that.
 
I can say those things are wrong. You cannot. You affirm subjective morality, therefore your condemnation as an atheist is comical, because it's like attacking someone for liking blue instead of green. It's a meaningless attack (on your world view).

Actually, while exagerrating, I think this more closely reflects how people behave. I mean just look at Sports Team Rivalries. It is completely subjective.

Or two people clashing over Music Genres. It seems entirely reasonable to think that if people will clash of these relatively mundane issues they would definitely argue over their subjective morality. Theists especially. I mean hell look at the history of Northern Ireland. Both sides probably figured they were more on the side of God and had the right beliefs and even following an Objective Morality that said it was fine to plant car bombs.
 
Simple. Going back to gay rights. You want to give people the option to vote on things that will affect others.
Why can't you just believe what you believe, and allow others to believe what they believe? In other words, if you don't want to believe in gay marriage, don't acknowledge it. Simple. No one is stomping on your rights. But instead, the religious right want to "impose" what they believe on others, even if others don't believe the same.

This is also false. I don't have any interest in pressing my beliefs on others.

The problem is, when it's time to cast my vote for to legalize same-sex marriage, I can't cast my vote for it because it would be like asking me to vote "yes" for a "square circle". It's logically incoherent in my mind.

I'm not trying to stop gay marriage. But I'll never vote "yes" on anything that calls a circle a square, so as long as there's improper terminology on the bills I vote for or against, my hand is forced. I can't vote "yes" on a round square.

Also note: God showed us forcing rules on others doesn't work. The ten commandments are just ten simply rules, but no man alive can adhere to them. What does that tell you?

You don't change people by imposing law on them. You change people by engaging with them individually... like Jesus did.
 
Gay relationships are okay as long as it's between a man and a boy, or at least that's what my minister told me at band camp...
 
Actually, while exagerrating, I think this more closely reflects how people behave. I mean just look at Sports Team Rivalries. It is completely subjective.

That's true, but that doesn't mean other things are not objectively true. Our subjective nature towards preferences doesn't mean that morality is therefore subjective.

Or two people clashing over Music Genres. It seems entirely reasonable to think that if people will clash of these relatively mundane issues they would definitely argue over their subjective morality. Theists especially. I mean hell look at the history of Northern Ireland. Both sides probably figured they were more on the side of God and had the right beliefs and even following an Objective Morality that said it was fine to plant car bombs.

Any time people are trying to uncover knowledge, there are disputes. It takes many, many failed experiments and theories before proving conclusively a scientific truth. Similarly, moral truths aren't always clear.

Nevertheless, some things are true, and some things are false. Truth exists. Relativism is false.

So the question comes back to - is anything objectively wrong? Even just one thing? If the answer is yes, atheism is false, and theism follows necessarily.

I tend to believe that it's quite clearly objectively true that loving a child is "better" than torturing a child.

If you feel the same, then you might want to reconsider theism. :)
 
Flynn's point: my opinion is truth. Anything that doesn't fit into my perception of truth, is wrong. Therefore, I will cram my truth down your throat, because I cannot deny my truth.
 
That's true, but that doesn't mean other things are not objectively true. Our subjective nature towards preferences doesn't mean that morality is therefore subjective.



Any time people are trying to uncover knowledge, there are disputes. It takes many, many failed experiments and theories before proving conclusively a scientific truth. Similarly, moral truths aren't always clear.

Nevertheless, some things are true, and some things are false. Truth exists. Relativism is false.

So the question comes back to - is anything objectively wrong? Even just one thing? If the answer is yes, atheism is false, and theism follows necessarily.

I tend to believe that it's quite clearly objectively true that loving a child is "better" than torturing a child.

If you feel the same, then you might want to reconsider theism. :)

Wait. We stumble around exploring moral ideas until we find the right ones that work? That sounds like subjective opinion becoming consensus. If there is objectivity, it is because people are earnestly trying to not be to biased.

Your statement about loving a child could be taken many ways. Subjectively, some people just feel love for children, while in fact other people Subjectively really hate being around children. This is massive bias. If either party shifts toward thinking about children objectively, they may both agree it's better for children to be educated and cared for so they can grow up and contribute to society. It doesn't take divine revelation to figure this out.

Anyway, the suggestion that there is Objective Morality therefore God exists feels like a non sequitur argument. We could both say there is Objective Morality and than make special claims about it's source.
 
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In that last post to you, my point was to uncover what your point was... to which you gave me a question.

So I ask again, what was your point? I couldn't tell what your point was in the post I replied to.