You know, all this talking of "feeling" is pretty funny, why, cause it is game dependant on what is or isn't responsive. Just cause a game is 60FPS it doesn't mean it is responsive. Similarly, just cause a game is 30FPS doesn't mean it is sluggish.
Skyrim @ 30FPS: Sluggish
Skyrim @ 60FPS: Smooth and responsive
Batman Arkham Asylum/City/Origins @ 30FPS: Sluggish
Batman Arkham Asylum/City/Origins @ 60FPS: Smooth and responsive
Tomb Raider, Borderlands 2, Dark Souls, Bioshock, Fallout, Darksiders II, DMC Devil May Cry, etc, etc...
All of these games (sans DMC) I had and played on my OLD PC and if I maxed them out I would get roughly 30fps (sometimes 35ish) and they felt sluggish. On my new PC I can max them and hit 60 solid, not sluggish.
I'll give you this, if a game isn't developed well there's no framerate that will save it from feeling sluggish, but any game that feels "good" @30 will feel better @60.
You keep talking about what the "other guys" are doing, but it seems to me that you're the one who keeps bringing console war dynamics into it over and over, despite my attempts to keep the thread away from that. You're coming across really patronizing to me. If you're so "above it all," why bother to read the thread? Feeling a need to ride on your high horse today?
Just go with it, dude. There's nothing you can say or do that will make any of the XB diehards think you're anything other than a PS fanboy. You've brought up a topic that has them butthurt these days so now you're the "other guys".
So do what I do, enjoy the ride and be a thorn in their side when you can. If they're going to be so narrow minded you may as well engage in some crazy making.