That's right, Belly is gay. He must know JinCa then.What about those who happen to be LG or B and Trans?
Better yet, where is Bellybama and his sassy and or serious comments? Is he in the states yet?
That's right, Belly is gay. He must know JinCa then.What about those who happen to be LG or B and Trans?
Better yet, where is Bellybama and his sassy and or serious comments? Is he in the states yet?
That's right, Belly is gay. He must know JinCa then.
No a true friend can be like family and in some peoples cases closer.There is a trans character in this game as well, at least the actor is trans, she was in the last cinematic. I don't want to lump being trans and being gay in the same group though, even though all of the letters get combined into one label (LGBT...UVWXYZ)I have no desire to be a woman and never have lol. I'm not talking badly about trans people in saying that, I just don't understand how they feel and don't think gay people should be grouped with them because I think it causes some confusion. Gender identity and sexual orientation aren't the same thing but for some reason we are always grouped together, I'm guessing it's a "stronger together" mindset but we really aren't the same.
Family is in your life regardless of who they are, friends are people you choose to have in your life. I find it hard to believe that you would choose to have people in your life if you truly disagree with who they are. How could you be a real friend to someone if you put limitations on the scope of the friendship? Would you want a gay friend to talk to you if they were having relationship problems? would they feel comfortable talking to you about that knowing how you feel about that part of their life to begin with? Maybe we have different thoughts on what a true friend is.
No a true friend can be like family and in some peoples cases closer.
A true friend if they love you or care about you will continue to do so if you are homosexual,have a drug problem,cheat on your husband/wife,are a liar etc etc.
Yes a TRUE friend can be closer than family, family is chosen for you but friends are in your life because you want them there. Sadly love for family at times feels more like obligation than real love which makes me wonder if it's really love at all but that's another issue lol. Can you be a true friend to someone who you put conditions on? someone who you don't think is equal to you? thinking like "I don't like that you are gay" even though being gay is just what they are regardless of your feelings on it? It's not the same as a drug problem or someone having an affair, you didn't choose to be straight you just are, the same way a gay person is gay. I wish people would realize it's not about their approval it's about accepting that it's just a part of life for some people.
Yes we are friends with people that do things we don't agree with,saying otherwise is a lie or you have fake or weak love as real love is unconditional.Yes a TRUE friend can be closer than family, family is chosen for you but friends are in your life because you want them there. Sadly love for family at times feels more like obligation than real love which makes me wonder if it's really love at all but that's another issue lol. Can you be a true friend to someone who you put conditions on? someone who you don't think is equal to you? thinking like "I don't like that you are gay" even though being gay is just what they are regardless of your feelings on it? It's not the same as a drug problem or someone having an affair, you didn't choose to be straight you just are, the same way a gay person is gay. I wish people would realize it's not about their approval it's about accepting that it's just a part of life for some people.
Yes a TRUE friend can be closer than family, family is chosen for you but friends are in your life because you want them there. Sadly love for family at times feels more like obligation than real love which makes me wonder if it's really love at all but that's another issue lol. Can you be a true friend to someone who you put conditions on? someone who you don't think is equal to you? thinking like "I don't like that you are gay" even though being gay is just what they are regardless of your feelings on it? It's not the same as a drug problem or someone having an affair, you didn't choose to be straight you just are, the same way a gay person is gay. I wish people would realize it's not about their approval it's about accepting that it's just a part of life for some people.
TRUE friend is now qualifying metric? Come on, man. Maybe for some people it is the bar too far, but this is what I mean by this requirement to embrace. It's not enough that Val gets along and treats people respectfully - it's not enough that he has friends and has involvement/interaction (at whatever level) in his life. He doesn't (I assume) harass, or deny care or services.
He doesn't think it's a positive thing (for whatever reason). It's when he puts his two cents in, And THAT is why he is berated. He didn't agree. Now that's fine. Honestly, hash it out as long as people don't try to negatively affect his life because of is (as happens frequently on a number of issue nowadays- like being blacklisted because you don't think it's ethical to give pre-pubescent children hormone blockers because little Johnny wanted to wear a dress a few times).
He doesn't want to see the expression of it in a franchise he wants to play. The creator has decided to include it in their game, as is THEIR right. He now has to decide if his disagreement is strong enough to overpower the level of discomfort he feels. It really is a case of "don't like, don't buy it". It IS understandable that he wouldn't want to have to make that choice.
Yes we are friends with people that do things we don't agree with,saying otherwise is a lie or you have fake or weak love as real love is unconditional.
Everything is a choice including our relationships with family and friends and the good and bad things we do...not budging on this.
That's according to YOU.
Well, it's according to most gay people. All the gay people I've met have said they've always been gay (although it took some of them a while to work through confusion or denial).
Of course they see it that way but I disagree and have a right to my reasons just like them.
My perspective doesn't matter?Trolling or ignorant?
My perspective doesn't matter?
gotcha
Yes I do.Not more than someone who actually lives through the things you only have outside opinions on, do you really think you can make an informed opinion on it?
Of course they see it that way but I disagree and have a right to my reasons just like them.
The choosing to be gay idea idea never made much sense me. Straight people don't choose who they are attracted too. Why would gay people?
YES I ABSOLUTELY DISAGREE.You disagree with all of their reports about their own internal experience? Why? What makes you think you know them better than they know themselves?
I'm not being belligerent, it just doesn't make sense. I can see how you might dismiss a particular individual's report about their internal experience -- maybe you think they're deluded or whatever -- but why would you dismiss an entire legion of people, all telling you basically the same thing about how they experience themselves? Why would you think you know their internal experience better than they do?
I agree that you have a right to your reasons, but you haven't given any. I'd be interested to hear what they are.
YES I ABSOLUTELY DISAGREE.
I been taught not to trust feelings and to lean not on my own understanding.(no I don't follow this perfectly nor could anyone)
I trust what I learned over what they think they know.
I have a right to have these views and they have a right to have theirs.
BUT they want me to think what they choose is normal and keep quiet hence them going on and on.
They police that they are right but I am not allowed to say the opposite LOL?
YES I ABSOLUTELY DISAGREE.
I been taught not to trust feelings and to lean not on my own understanding.(no I don't follow this perfectly nor could anyone)
I trust what I learned over what they think they know.
I have a right to have these views and they have a right to have theirs.
BUT they want me to think what they choose is normal and keep quiet hence them going on and on.
They police that they are right but I am not allowed to say the opposite LOL?
GM
You have a right to be right and wrong as well as I been saying all along and you continue to police to me that your feelings take precedence over anything that doesn't agree with them but I won't call you ignorant.
Also you know what that something else is and that's sad you feel this way(am I doing this right?)